What’s Different About Working With Me?

People assume confidence coaching is one lane. Mindset work. Or voice work. Or presentation technique. Pick your flavour and hope it sticks.

But the women who end up in my sessions aren’t dealing with a one-lane problem. They’re dealing with something threaded through their whole system. A fear that shows up in the micro-moments they can’t explain. A voice that works perfectly everywhere except the moment it matters.

So I don’t choose a lane. I work outside-in and inside-out. At the same time.

That’s the first difference.

Drama trained me to see what your body does long before your brain admits it. The tiny shoulder hitch. The breath you hold when you introduce yourself. The way your posture collapses half a second before you speak, as if your system is bracing for impact no one else can see.

And here’s the part people don’t realise: Your body tells me the truth faster than your words do.

But performance training is only half of it. The other half lives deeper.In the beliefs you’ve rehearsed for years without ever saying them out loud. In the way your nervous system learned to equate visibility with risk.In the protective split-second your voice disappears because some old part of you still thinks silence is safer.

That’s the inside-out work — the NLP, the hypnotherapy, the belief architecture. Not the Pinterest version. The real version. The version that catches the sentence you’ve been repeating internally since you were seventeen and rewrites it without forcing you to perform a new identity you don’t believe in.

And when you work both directions at once? Things shift in ways that don’t make logical sense until you’re sitting in a meeting, speaking in a voice that feels like yours for the first time in years. Not louder. Not slicker. Just yours.

People think my sessions are intense. Some are. But more often they’re strangely fun. Playful, even. Because when the pressure to “perform confidence” drops, the real you shows up — the part of you that already knows how to speak, but hasn’t had permission to take the lead.

That’s the work. Permission without performance. Expression without that internal flinch. Safety you can actually feel in your body, not the kind you try to talk yourself into.

What clients tell me afterwards isn’t “I learned a technique. It’s “I finally stopped overthinking it.” Or “My voice didn’t shake — and I didn’t even notice until afterwards". Or “I spoke up in the meeting because I had something to say.  I

surprised myself.”

That’s the difference. Not the tools. Not the credentials. Not the background.

It’s the fact that I can catch the moment you disappear — and bring you back before you even realise you left.

If you’ve been trying to fix a problem that never came from one place, this will feel different. And if you’re ready for support that meets the real issue, not the visible symptoms, you know where to find me.